Be the change you want to see!
I've heard and read that phrase everywhere for years. And it's true, it actually truly is a real thing, but...
What if the person that needs to change isn't you? What if you've made the change and someone else needs to do the same?
This gets tricky.
It's tricky because we want the best for them, and we can see a way forward but the truth is that we can't sit here and wait for them to change. Sometimes we just have to let it go and know that it may not be their time, or it may not be you that helps them break through.
That role is reserved for someone else.